ऋतु

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 Hi Philippa,

Happy New year to you. ( ofcourse the Hindu calendar one). One more year has passed and things have changed just like every other year. As the line goes, " Change is the only constant" but all changes are different. Some make us feel good like getting a comfortable job after a hectic job ;). While some changes make our bodies shiver, afterall winters aren't easy. 

Philippa, You have seen quite a few seasons by now or should i say ऋतुएं। You have a past mixed with comforting memories and discomforting truths. You can't go back in time to make amends in the past. The present is the only thing which we can change. It's basic Physics!! 

I will tell you a way though --- YOUR PRESENT CAN ALWAYS CHANGE YOUR PAST BY CHANGING YOU. I'm not saying that it's easy but it's a way. Letting yourself to be changed is one of the hardest things to do. The path towards change goes through adaptation and you have king of seasons by your side [quite literally;)  ] 

My best wishes for the coming changes.

❤

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